OVER-PARENTING AND CHILD\u27S RIGHTS TO LEISURE

POVZETEK Otroci so temeljni in hkrati najranljivejši člen naše družbe. Ravno zaradi te ranljivosti je spoštovanje in zagotavljanje njihovih pravic posebno občutljivo in pomembno področje. Šele dobro stoletje imajo otroci status subjekta, ne le objekta pravic. Deklaracija (1959) in pozneje Konvencija o otrokovih pravicah (1989) sta spodbudili velike spremembe v pravni zaščiti in položaju otrok, pa tudi v tradicionalnem razumevanju otroštva. Med drugim tudi razumevanje prostega časa otrok in možnosti do igre. Konvencija o otrokovih pravicah v 31. členu tako določa, da imajo otroci pravico do počitka in prostega časa ter do igre in razvedrila, primernega otrokovi starosti. Pri preživljanju otrokovega prostega časa ima pomembno vlogo tudi družina. Današnji svet postavlja vedno bolj zahtevno nalogo družini in staršem v želji, da bi bil njihov otrok najuspešnejši, svoje ambicije pretvorijo v otrokove želje in temu cilju pod okriljem otrokovega dobrega tudi sledijo. Čas, ki naj bi bil namenjen za otrokovo igro, želijo starši kakovostno zapolniti z različnimi dejavnostmi, to pa nemalokrat vodi v dodatno obremenitev otrok namesto njihovo razbremenitev. Ena izmed glavnih negativnih posledic intenzivnega starševstva v tem obdobju je prav v omejevanju otrokovega prostega časa. Ukrepi za razbremenitev intenzivnega starševsta je v igri, s katero se otrok povezuje s svetom, pridobiva izkušnje ter krepi svojo domišljijo in v razbremenitvi otroka s prostočasnimi dejavnostmi.ABSTRACT Children are the core and at the same time the most vulnerable part of our society. Because of this vulnerability and to ensure respect for their rights is particularly sensitive and important area. For about a century, children have the status of an entity not only the object of rights. Declaration from 1959 and later the Convention on the Rights of the Child from 1989, have encouraged significant changes in the legal protection and of the children in the traditional understanding of childhood. Among other things, an understanding of free time for children and rights to play. Article 31. of the Convention on the Rights of the Child stipulates that children have the right to rest to have free time and to engage in play and recreational activities appropriate to the child\u27s age. In the child\u27s free time familiy also have an important role. Today\u27s world and trends puts increasingly challenging task on the family and future parents that their child should be the most successful while most parents their ambitions often converts into the child\u27s wishes for the sake of their future. The time that should be spared in child\u27s play and free time parents want to substitute them with high-quality various activities, and this often leads to additional obligations for their children instead of relief and free time to play. One of the main negative effects of intensive parenting during childhood is also the limitation of the child\u27s free time. Measures to relieve intense parenting is in the child play in which child connects with the world, gaining experience and strengthen their imagination