The Illmess of Relationship and Clinical Nurture

個人の病理は家族の病理であり,乳幼児の症状や問題は母親の暖かい受けとめの有無と深いかかわりがある｡子どもの問題を｢関係性の病い｣ととらえ,neuro-scienceの観点から子どもの心と深層のレベルでひびきあう関係を追求する｡生きたinter-actionはいかにすればなされるのかが問われる｡そのためには,母親の人間関係の質と量がアップされなければならない｡親が自らの未解決の問題を抱えているかぎり子どももまた影響を受ける｡すなわち,親の目が死んでいれば子の目もまた死んだものとなる｡こうして,親の側に問題があれば,子どもの症状や問題は適正に理解されないか,誤解されることになる｡そもそも,親のビジネスの原理にもとづいた養育態度は,生き物としての子どもの発達のリズムとペースを阻害する｡乳幼児の様々な症例を中心に,発達の基本的前提条件を満たすよう,関係性の精神病理に焦点をしぼり論を進める｡The Pathology of an indvidual and that of a family are the same, and the condition of illness and the troubles of infants are closely connected with the presence or absence of warm maternal acceptance. This paper explains the various problems of infants as the result of what I call the illness of relationship. A healthy frame of mind stems from vibrations in the relationship. The relationsip of both quality and quantity shows how to obtain effective inter-actions. As long as parents have unsolved problems of their own, their children are negatively influenced. If the eyes of a mother are lifeless, those of fer child will be the same. In this way, she can't understand the true condition of her child or she misunderstands it. Now, the principle of development is entirely different from that of business, so the disturbance within the child destroys the functioning of the infant, and sound conditions of the relationship must be examined according to the basic preconditions of development