FULFILLMENT OF HUSBAND AND WIFE'S RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS IN SIRI MARRIAGE: Case Study in Padangsidimpuan City, West Sumatra Province, Indonesia

This study analyzes the practice of sirri marriage in the City of Padangsidimpuan, Province of West Sumatra, Indonesia. The focus of this research is to see whether gender bias occurs according to gender analysis according to Mansour Fakih in fulfilling the rights and obligations of husband and wife in unregistered marriage families in Padangsidimpuan City. This type of research is field qualitative with the approach of Legal Sociology, Legal Psychology, and Anthropology. Based on research findings, unregistered marriages in the city of Padang Sidempuan do not only have an impact on wives and children, but also have an impact on husbands both in the household and in social life including 1) Marginalization, such as husbands having difficulty getting their rights from where they work and it is difficult to get social assistance from the government because they do not have a marriage certificate and family card, 2) Subordination: the impression that women are objects in marriage so that a woman can be published as a wife or kept secret, 3) Stereotypes: Women who are married in unregistered ways are considered mistresses , having an affair, or living at home without being married, 4) Violence: unregistered marriages are prone to domestic violence because there is no evidence that shows the existence of marital ties, and 5) double burden that must be borne by the wife, namely having to earn a living that should be borne by the husband, as well as take care and care for their children.Penelitian ini menganalisis praktek nikah sirri di Kota Padangsidimpuan Profinsi Sumatera Barat Indonesia. Fokus Penelitian ini adalah melihat apakah terjadi bias gender sesuai analisa gender menurut Mansour Fakih dalam pemenuhan hak dan kewajiban suami Istri pada keluarga nikah siri di Kota Padangsidimpuan. Jenis Peneitian ini adalah kualitatif lapangan dengan pendekatan Sosiologi Hukum, Psikologi Hukum, dan antropologi. Berdasarkan temuan penelitian, nikah siri di kota Padang Sidempuan ternyata tidak hanya menimbulkan dampak terhadap istri dan anak saja, tetapi juga berdampak kepada suami baik itu dalam rumah tangga maupun dalam kehidupan sosial diantaranya 1) Marginalisasi, seperti suami sulit mendapatkan hak-haknya dari tempatnya bekerja dan sulit mendapat bantuan sosial dari pemerintah karena tidak memiliki surat nikah dan kartu keluarga, 2) Subordinasi: kesan bahwa perempuan adalah objek dalam pernikahan sehingga seorang perempuan bisa saja dipublikasikan sebagai istri atau dirahasiakan, 3) Stereotype: Perempuan yang dinikahi secara siri dianggap perempuan simpanan, selingkuhan, atau tinggal serumah tanpa ada ikatan pernikahan, 4) Kekerasan (Violence): Nikah siri rentan mengalami kekerasan dalam rumah tangga karena tidak ada bukti yang menunjukkan adanya ikatan perkawinan, dan 5) beban ganda (double burden) yang harus ditanggung istri, yaitu harus mencari nafkah yang seharusnya ditanggung suami, sekaligus mengurus dan mengasuh anak-anakny