Relationships in the family after the disclosure of child\u27s sexual abuse

Ko pride do razkritje otrokove spolne zlorabe, le-ta prizadene in zaznamuje tudi ljudi, ki so otroku blizu. To je najpogosteje ožja družina. Družina je prvo otrokovo socialno okolje, ki naj bi bilo varno okolje, a temu žal ni vedno tako. Povzročitelj otrokove spolne zlorabe je pogosto nekdo, ki mu otrok zaupa, najpogosteje je to družinski član. Samo razkritje spolne zlorabe zamaje in povzroči v družini takojšno krizo in velike nemire. Razkritje spolne zlorabe in prvi odzivi na razkritje je za družino veliko odnosno in psihično breme. V tem času se družina spopada s številnimi tesnobami in drugimi manifestacijami o trenjih med družinskimi člani. Znotraj družine se pojavijo občutki izolacije, saj se družina sama želi soočiti z vsemi spremembami, ki se dogajajo v družinskem sistemu, ki jih je povzročilo razkritje zlorabe. Na soočanje z razkritjem zlorabe vpliva njihova socialna mobilnost pri doseganju sprememb in premagovanju strahov. Razkritje spolne zlorabe je še vedno tretirano kot tabu zaradi družbenih in kulturnih kontekstov, ki so v sami družbi ustvarjeni. Občutki, ki se pojavljajo ob razkritju, vodijo družino v distanco in vztrajno iskanje svojih virov za soočanje s posledicami zlorabe. To lahko privede do razpada ali rekonstrukcije družine, saj to močno zamaje njihovo realnost. Strokovnjaki se ob razkritju spolne zlorabe usmerijo zgolj na pomoč in podporo pri okrevanju žrtve, družina pa ostane zapostavljena. Čeprav je ostalim družinskim članom tudi nudena pomoč in podpora za soočanje s posledicami spolne zlorabe, pa le-ti pomoč in podporo v večini prejmejo le, če se samoorganizirajo. Tudi okolje po razkritju spolne zlorabe družino stigmatizira in jo opredeli kot disfunkcionalno družino. Ne samo, da že samo razkritje otrokove spolne zlorabe vpliva na obstoječe odnose med družinskimi člani, k temu pripomore še okolica ter dejstvo, da je družina v večini primerih prepuščena sama sebi, da se sooča s posledicami spolne zlorabe in z okrevanjem po razkritju.When a child\u27s sexual abuse is revealed, it only affects and marks the people who are close to the child. This is most often the immediate family. The family is a child\u27s first social environment, which is supposed to be a safe environment, but unfortunately this is not always the case. The perpetrator of the child\u27s sexual abuse is often someone the child trusts, most often a family member. The mere disclosure of sexual abuse shakes and causes an immediate crisis and great unrest in the family. The disclosure of sexual abuse and the first reactions to the disclosure is a significant emotional and psychological burden for the family. During this time, the family is dealing with many anxieties and other manifestations of friction between family members. Feelings of isolation arise within the family as the family itself tries to deal with all the changes occurring in the family system caused by the disclosure of the abuse. Coping with disclosure of abuse is influenced by their social mobility in achieving change and overcoming fears. Disclosure of sexual abuse is still treated as a taboo, due to the social and cultural contexts created in society itself. The feelings that arise at the time of disclosure lead the family to distance themselves and persistently search for their resources to deal with the consequences of the abuse. This can lead to the disintegration or reconstruction of the family, as this greatly shakes their reality. When the gender of the abuse is revealed, experts only focus on helping and supporting the victim\u27s recovery, while the family remains neglected. Although other family members are also offered help and support for dealing with the consequences of sexual abuse, they mostly only receive help and support if they organize themselves. Even the environment upon disclosure of sexual abuse stigmatizes the family and defines it as dysfunctional. Not only does the disclosure of the child\u27s gender abuse itself affect the existing relationships between family members, this is also helped by the environment and the fact that in most cases the family is left to deal with the consequences of the sexual abuse and recovery after the disclosure