PARENT AND CHILDRELATIONSHIP AND PSCHOLOGICAL FACTORS THAT COME TO THE SURFACE IN THE FAMILY

Abstract: This article examines the shortcomings of family circumstances problems. It is known that classical psychoanalysis was the first scientific direction that laid the relationship of parents and children in the center of the personal development of the child. Psychoanalysis has become a defining direction in the development of basic concepts of child development, in which the main role is assigned to the problem of relations between children and parents (E. Erikson, K. Horney and others). The theory of communion has gained the greatest popularity. The child recognizes himself through the mother's attitude to him, and the mother perceives him as the source of his attitude to him. This complex relationship is initially understood as an attitude that gives a sense of safety and security to oneself and close adults. Modern research on this issue has gone from the study of the child's self-awareness to the study of his hattiharakts, which is often described in terms of social adaptation and compensation. Communication is no longer regarded as a relationship, but as a strategy of behavior with the fathers