We investigate the out-of-equilibrium production of scalar dark matter (DM) from the inflaton condensate during inflation and reheating. We assume that this scalar couples only to the inflaton via a direct quartic coupling and is minimally coupled to gravity. We consider all possible production regimes: purely gravitational, weak direct coupling (perturbative), and strong direct coupling (non-perturbative). For each regime, we use different approaches to determine the dark matter phase space distribution and the corresponding relic abundance. For the purely gravitational regime, scalar dark matter quanta are copiously excited during inflation resulting in an infrared (IR) dominated distribution function and a relic abundance which overclose...