Hoping for the best while preparing for the worst : A parent’s experiences of the nurse’s support during childhood cancer care

Background: Every year, hundreds of children are diagnosed with cancer. This affects the whole child's family, which means that the nurse during the child's cancer care must be there to support the whole family. The parent needs to feel involved in the child's care and have a trusting relationship with the nurse. As a parent, you have to go through a great deal of suffering, which requires the nurse to adapt her support to the needs of the parent and the child. Aim: The purpose of this study was to shed light on how a parent with a child with cancer experiences the nurse's support during and after cancer care. Method: A literature-based study was conducted. Ten qualitative articles were selected and analyzed, based on Friberg's analysis step model. This participates in three categories and a total of eight subcategories. Results: The results showed that the nurse's support was an important factor in an attempt to reduce the parent's suffering. This support could be divided into three categories: Cooperation between nurse and parent, parent's need for support and accessibility and communication. Conclusion: Pediatric cancer affects the whole child's family, and the parent is in great need of support to deal with their suffering and at the same time support their child. During their child’scancer care, the parent goes through many feelings of no longer recognizing their own child, as well as being helpless in their parenting role. By the nurse working in an empathetic and inclusive way where there is an opportunity to build meaningful and strengthening relationships between the parent and the nurse and that the parent's needs are also met, the parent's suffering can be reduced with the help of the nurse's support