International audienceThis article is concerned with the analysis of semi-discrete-in-space and fully-discrete approximations of the null controllability (and controllability to the trajectories) for parabolic equations. We propose an abstract setting for space discretizations that potentially encompasses various numerical methods and we study how the controllability problems depend on the discretization parameters. For time discretization we use $\theta$-schemes with $\theta\in [\hf,1]$. For the proofs of controllability we rely on the strategy introduced in 1995 by G.~Lebeau and L.~Robbiano for the null-controllability of the heat equation, which is based on a spectral inequality. We obtain relaxed uniform observability estimates in both ...