Dinamika Eksistensi Lesbian Proses Penerimaan Diri, Pemenuhan HAM, dan Eksistensi Diri

Indonesia is a rich country and diverse in ethnics, religions, cultures, racial and languages. Those diversity always looks beautiful. But if most people faced with diferent sexual orientation, all of which referred to diversity recognized as inconsistent. Some of their sexual orientation perceived as deviant sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is understood as a single. The only orientation is heterosexual (men or women who love the opposite sex or it could be interpreted as sexual relations between men and women). Every human being has their own process, through life to reach their existence. Achieve what humans call themselves as the meaning of life. Seeing the reality of lesbians, the author very keen to write how lesbian through their life processes to achieve the meaning and value of themselve as human being. This reality is used by the author as a value and learning together process to know more about social science research which conceptually always aims to raise the existence of homosexuality itself, and explained that the diversity of sexual orientation is part of pluralism. This research is expected able to eliminate discrimination, violence and promoting humanity values in all aspect of society life and more in the context of state , enforcement of human rights. The observation unit of this research are lesbian, the member of lesbian and heterosexual community, and lesbian surround society (lesbian environment). The unit of analysis in this research includes lesbian interaction with herself, more on inner spirituality of a lesbian. It is to see self existence which also includes self-acceptance. Then the individual interactions and relationships with the community (fellow members of lesbian and heterosexual) and other lesbian community. Self-existence of a lesbian in the community sometimes can’t be obtained in other community, because community environtment truly affects in how a person see him/herself and member of community development. Even more complex is how the existence of lesbian in society, by the acceptance or rejection experienced by lesbian. Individual intelligence and flexibility in decision-making about the interaction and socialization with the society is important.This research aims to answer how a lesbian personally build selfexistence, in the community, and in the society. From these results it is concluded that the existence of which achieved each person is different, of course different in the process and conflicts. Lesbian’s social reality is not always associated with sexual activity, but many fundamental things are poorly understood by the public. Overall this research concluded that, it is our own self who conscious and able to overcome the problems of life, and with it we are able to demonstrate the existence of ourselves