He was born in Tuzla to secular Muslim parents. His father produced movies, and his mother was a musician. He did poorly in school, so his parents pushed him into the arts. He travelled a lot as a youngster and enjoyed exploring other cultures. He noticed things getting bad politically starting in 1987. He was very optimistic until the very end that things would settle down. His wife, a pediatrician, had just gotten pregnant and had just had kidney surgery when the war started. He recalls switching to survival mode in which you begin to recognize the sound of bombs, where to hide, how to dive, and how to get food. After months you become a survival zombie . He had relatives living in Zagreb, but his wife wanted to wait until she was nine m...