Implementation of Communication Among the Divorced Women on Remarriage in Indonesia

This research aims to know the construction of social reality, which can be understood from the reasons, motives, and the concept itself the subject researched. Researchers using qualitative research methods with the phenomenological approach, i.e. an approach in how the world experiences the perpetrator with the epistemological assumptions based on that fact is what is in the shadow of the perpetrator. This research is the paradigm of constructivist view human experience consists of many means of reproduction of reality and not reality. Phenomenology is not just classifies every conscious action being performed, but also includes the prediction of the Act in the future, as seen from the aspects associated with it. It all stems from how does one interpret the objects experiences. The subject of research 5 (five) persons aged between 30-48 years who are domiciled in Jakarta and Bandung, the old widow with one, three, five, nine and 12 years. The results showed that: 1) construction of reality according to female perpetrators of remarriage after divorce include processes that reveal the reasons, motives, and the concept of self they have with respect to the choice of his life. From the results of the study found that the subject decided to remarry after a divorce because of religious reasons, biological, economic, and social. While the motive was oriented towards the past and the future so the self-concept is formed in the early days after the divorce was a negative self-concept and positive self concept began to take shape when they decided to remarry after divorce; 2) The communication process for women perpetrators of remarriage after divorce in a family with his new adaptation takes quite a long time for mutual understanding of each other. The process of adjusting the self encountered many communication barriers. Stillness and avoid impressed demonstrated by research subject when there are things that interfere with their feelings in a relationship with a new family. But in the end they realize that adaptation is done must be supported by a communications open to reveal all the problems encountered in order to find the solution, which in the end can find joy in wading through the dipper households. Keywords— Implementation, Communication, Divorced, Remarriag