Also arXiv:1206.0448International audienceWe give a formula for the Lipschitz constant in Thompson's part metric of any order-preserving flow on the interior of a (possibly infinite dimensional) closed convex pointed cone. This provides an explicit form of a characterization of Nussbaum concerning non order-preserving flows. As an application of this formula, we show that the flow of the generalized Riccati equation arising in stochastic linear quadratic control is a local contraction on the cone of positive definite matrices and characterize its Lipschitz constant by a matrix inequality. We also show that the same flow is no longer a contraction in other natural Finsler metrics on this cone, including the standard invariant Riemannian metr...