Parental mistakes in raising children

Brak i odluka o osnivanju obitelji velika je prekretnica u životu. Da bi netko bio uspješan roditelj, prvo se treba znati dogovoriti sa svojim partnerom u vezi nekih odluka. Ne postoji savršen roditelj, zato to ne trebamo očekivati ni od odgoja. U svakom odgoju možemo očekivati bar male probleme, ali moramo ih znati što prije ispraviti. Početni problemi u obitelji se javljaju zbog nepoštivanja partnera i dijete tu najčešće bude kažnjeno. Pod kažnjeno mislimo da dijete ide više na onu stranu koja mu više popušta i kod koje više dobiva, gdje se može javiti razmaženost i agresivnost kada nije kako dijete želi. Događaju se i ostale situacije s kojima se susrećemo svakodnevno i ne smatramo ih kao greške, a ustvari jesu. Također su i početak ulaska u zamke roditelja iz kojih se teže izvući ako nismo informirani pa se događaju posljedice u razvoju kod djeteta. Dijete očekuje pažnju oba roditelja i to mu se treba pružiti. Dob djeteta odlučuje koliko kao roditelj moramo biti bliski i prisutni u razvoju.Marriage and family-building decisions are a major turning point in our life. To be a successful parent, you should first know how to deal with your partner about some important decisions. There is no perfect parent, so we do not have to expect any kind of education either. At each level we encounter problems, but we need to solve them as soon as possible. The initial problems in the family are due to disrespect for the partner and as a result of that the child is most often punished. Under penalty, we mean that the child is going to the other side where he gets more and more, where it is possible to talk about spoil and aggression when things are not as a child wants. There are other situations we face on a daily basis and we do not consider them as mistakes, but in reality they are. They are also the beginning of getting into the trap of parents who are more difficult to get away from, if we are not informed, so there are consequences for the development of the child. The child expects the attention of both parents and needs to be provided. The age of the child decides how much we need parents to be close and present in our life and development