Coming out : sexual orientation disclosure to siblings

This qualitative study explores LGBTQ individuals\u27 experiences navigating sexual orientation disclosure to their sibling(s). The purpose of the study was to examine the role siblings play in sexual orientation disclosure, how and why LGBTQ identified individuals \u27come out\u27 to their sibling(s), and provide a glimpse into their experiences of this disclosure. Eleven individuals, ages 25–32 who identified as Lesbian, Gay, Bi–sexual, Transgender or Queer were interviewed via open–ended, semi–structured interviews. LGBTQ participants were asked to speak about their sibling(s) relationship prior to and following their sexual orientation disclosure and the trajectory of their sexual orientation awareness through the process of \u27coming out\u27. Though each story was unique and individual, common themes emerged across interviews including periods of silence and secrecy, sense of relief, honesty and the intersection of self– discovery and the effects of exposure on the sibling(s) relationship. Findings from this study showed that the nature of the sibling relationship, moments of opportunity and circumstances were primary determinants of disclosure to siblings. Individuals shared diverse stories about their experiences \u27coming out\u27 that ranged in length, intensity and effect; all of which are difficult to isolate from external influences. Siblings and the sibling relationship played a role in LGBTQ individuals\u27 sexual orientation disclosure whether it functioned as a bridge between familial generations and society or a questioning voice. Sexual orientation disclosure is multifaceted and \u27coming out\u27 to siblings is just one aspect of this ongoing intimate process that contributes to a deeper understanding of the LGBTQ community