Nikolai talks about himself, his parents and grandparents. Nikolai was born in 1959 in Krasnodar. The family returned to Kalmykia in 1961 and settled in Elista. Nikolai’s father was a driver and his mother was a seamstress. Nikolai’s grandfather bred horses, although Nikolai never met him. He fought in the Russo-Japanese War and in the First World War. He carried with him an amulet, which is now kept at Nikolai’s house. Nikolai’s grandmother knew Kalmyk traditions and her genealogy well. Nikolai recalls that his father used to tell him to talk less and do more and to keep one’s promise. Nikolai grew up looking after his younger siblings and doing household chores. Nikolai chose his profession when he was in grade seven in secondary school. ...