Changes in the postmodern loving bond

The postmodern society is defined as a hedonist, hiperindividualista and shifting identities. It is hedonistic2 because the pleasure and enjoyment in life are tied to the wishes; hiperindividualista because it is characterized by apathy and indifference; and read, because he constantly changes the identity from the volatility of desire. These features of the society bring changes in the love life, the "liberation" of enjoyment breaks with the significant Other (singular) to acquire the signifiers of the Other (social), reflection of the hedonism of the perpetual party. The symptom is the vacuum in the affair, the existence of relationships that live it up with fewer long-term commitments and greater attention to their own needs, in the search for professional, social, affective and loving propriety at levels. In the Empire of the superego of our time, where are built different meanings with the other (relationship), promotes a phenomenology of love life that has no lasting ties; the symptom of instant happiness as the couple within a perpetual party which, to vanish, only leaves after him his freedom and a refusal to acquire responsibilities, arguments of social change which limits set long-term loving links.The love affair in the couple has changed under the influence of postmodernism; the safety of monogamy has lost ground to the immediacy of sensual gratification, hedonism, narcissism and individualism product, subverting the myths of monogamy and the male and female. In this work we present an overview of changes undergoing in love couple, analyzing four points: loving life in Postmodernity, the transit of the loving link partners to liquid love connection, the fall of the myths of the masculine and the feminine, and the offset between the sexes. Conclusion obtained is that the basis of postmodernism is 1 Doctorado en Ciencias Sociales, Master en Salud Mental y Clínica Social, Maestría en Psicología Clínica y Salud, y Maestría en Sociología. Correo electrónico: renebufi@yahoo.com.mx Revista Iberoamericana de las Ciencias Sociales y Humanísticas ISSN: 2395-7972 Vol. 4, Núm. 8 Julio - Diciembre 2015 RICSH ambivalent character since, on the one hand, spread new ideas about loving the couple experience, but on the other hand preserving ideological legacies that hurt that relationship.UAE