Pengalaman Menjadi Gay (Studi Fenomenologi pada Pria Homoseksual Menuju Coming Out)

Beren (2013) stated that homosexuality occurs in all layers of the society of the world with an estimated 21% of the world's men are the gay. The view of the pros and cons that occurred in society caused gays do social adjustment after gays do coming out. Adjustment to gays is not easy because gays face the pressure from within themselves and the pressure from the environment. Researchers using phenomenological approach by the method of Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis (IPA). Loading data is done with the interview and observation. The participants in this research have the main characteristics of the male homosexuals who have revealed themselves as gay on the family and the environment. The research results show the factors supporting individuals become gay is wrong foster patterns, lack of male role model that was found in the figures of the Father so that the individual identify themselves as gay and decided to coming out. Environmental perception that accept or reject and stressor experienced by the gay resulted in the three subject for doing coping stress in the form of the attitude shrink, redirect attention to hide the identity and limit the association as an effort to interact with the communit