A dominant strand in the sociology of music understands music to be a positive resource in active selfmaking. While accepting that music has many positive dimensions in modern societies, I question the view of the self underlying this understanding, and argue for the importance of a critical and historical approach to music and subjectivity which recognises the significance of people’s emotional experience. I then offer a more critical way of thinking about the role of music in modern societies using Axel Honneth’s notion of ‘organized self-realization’ as a defining feature of the process of individualization in contemporary societies. Using interviews with people about their musical practices, tastes and values, I explore how this idea mi...