Parenting When Apart: Tips for Non-Resident Fathers1

When couples divorce and a single-parent family is formed, children face many changes in their family life. One of the biggest changes, and one that can often be difficult, happens when a child stops living with both parents, which can mean the child loses daily contact with his or her father. Fathers who don't live with their children – also called non-resident fathers – tend to lose contact with their children over time. Fathers who value their roles tend to be involved with their children after divorce or separation. In general, maintaining contact is good for fathers and children. However, it is very important that the relationship is positive. If you are a father who has recently separated or divorced, you may worry about the time you have with your children. After separation, it is not the amount of time you spend with your child that matters, but th